online psychologist for parents

Support sessions, Guidance, Courses

Find more calm, connection + joy in parenting

A psychologist for parents who want to nurture secure attachment + build resilience – from the inside out

Most parents hold a vision of the relationship they want with their child – one built on love, patience, trust, and connection. But parenting is hard, and life doesn’t unfold the way we picture. Sometimes, our vision and reality don’t quite line up.

I often meet parents in those moments. Things feel tough, they’re not showing up as they’d hoped, or their child is struggling and they’re unsure how to help. If that feels familiar, you’re not alone.

You may find yourself wondering –

  • Why do I keep losing my patience and reacting in ways I know aren’t helpful? 
  • How can I stay connected and present with my child when I feel exhausted or stressed?
  • How can I shift unhelpful patterns we seem to be stuck in?
  • Why is my child behaving this way – and how can I help them feel more secure?
  • How do I sift through the advice out there when I already feel so overwhelmed?
  • How can I let go of perfectionism or the feeling of not being ‘enough’?

you don’t have to figure it out alone

With the right support, you can put your parenting intentions into aligned action.

Gumnut Psychology is a Melbourne-based practice offering convenient online support for parents of children from infancy to 12 years old.

Through parent sessions + courses, you’ll feel more grounded and confident in yourself. You’ll learn how to strengthen your connection with your child and bring your parenting intentions into daily life.

hi there!

I’m Natalie

I’m a registered psychologist and mum of two. My training is in educational and developmental psychology, attachment theory, and evidence-based parenting. I founded Gumnut Psychology after becoming a mother and recognising the need for dedicated support for parents.

I provide a warm, compassionate space where you can make sense of what’s going on, gain fresh perspective, and feel truly understood. Together, we explore your concerns and develop practical, meaningful ways to strengthen connection with your child. We’ll tune into your child’s inner world and learn ways of nurturing secure attachment. I’ll help you reconnect with your bigger picture goals for parenting and feel more aligned and harmonious in family life.

My aim is that you walk away feeling clear about what your child needs, confident in how to respond, and better equipped to stay calm and steady — even when your child isn’t. Just as importantly, I support you to meet yourself with greater self-compassion and care along the way.

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tailored one-to-one support

Parent Support Sessions

Individualised support for parents seeking an approach tailored to their family’s needs. I offer warm, compassionate support as well as structure and direction. I’ll help you navigate challenges, improve confidence and wellbeing, and build a deeper connection with your child.

  • Detailed background + development of goals
  • Recognise the needs behind behaviour, emotions + reactions
  • Practical, evidence-based parenting practices that align with your values
  • A safe space to develop insight + self-caring habits to feel more centred
  • Sessions paced to meet you where you’re at
  • Resources to support growth between sessions

single session guidance

Ask-A-Psychologist

Get clear, practical guidance in a single session. This option is for straight-forward issues.

You might have questions about a stage of development. You may be struggling with a behaviour like toddler tantrums. Otherwise, you might want guidance about managing a big change, like welcoming a new sibling.

  • 90 minute session
  • Insight into your child’s behaviour
  • Practical ways to support your child’s development
  • Evidence-based strategies
  • A clear plan with next steps

learning + skill development

Parenting Programs

I’m currently offering the Circle of Security Parenting™ parenting program. This online program is for parents and caregivers of 0-6 year olds and beyond. It’s grounded in decades of attachment research and used by parents around the world. Learn how to build a stronger connection, tune into your child’s needs, and support their development.

  • Private sessions for an individual or couple
  • 8 week program including videos + guided reflection
  • Understand the needs behind your child’s behaviour
  • Learn how to nurture a sense of security
  • Workbook to refer to throughout childhood

don’t stay stuck in doubt + confusion …

Get the help you need to raise secure children in a fast-evolving world.